Are you preparing for a natural birth? Here’s a list of the 9 books (one for each month of your pregnancy) I found most helpful while preparing for my natural home birth. These are all books that I’ve read and personally recommend. There were some others that I read during my pregnancy that didn’t make the cut. These are the best that I found, although I know there are still lots of good reads out there that I haven’t gotten to yet. I’d love if you’d share your favorites in the comments. Pressed for time? I’ll give you cheats for the most important sections to read.
2 During month two you’ll start making some of the most important decisions of your pregnancy. Who will your healthcare provider be? Where will you give birth? Your Best Birth: Know All Your Options, Discover the Natural Choices, and Take Back the Birth Experiencewill help you ask the right questions when making these important selections. It’s not as simple as calling up your usual gynecologist and letting them know you’re pregnant! I was pleasantly surprised that this book by Rikki Lake and Abby Epstein was not just a rehash of The Business of Being Born movie. Even better, it is sprinkled throughout with positive natural birth stories, many from names you’ll recognize.
4 I read HypnoBirthinghoping to pick up some relaxation techniques I could use during my birth. After reading it, I knew I would use very little from the book. The visualization techniques and scripts with names like rainbow relaxation and blue satin ribbons just did not resonate with me. Now I know that there’s no way I could have even remembered them as I focused fully on contractions. However, I did use the sleep breathing technique during labor and many times during pregnancy and motherhood. It is amazingly effective for dealing with any type of discomfort, and I often find myself actually falling asleep while using it. I also found the concept of breathing baby down rather than pushing (in the Experiencing Birth section) really intriguing. I didn’t have the patience to use it during my first birth, but I might revisit it in the future. a positive breastfeeding experience. The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding has been such a great resource for me for everything from birth to starting solids. It leaves you feeling empowered that you can successfully feed your baby. Before baby arrives, at least read Chapters 4-8.
8 Aside from your birth plan, one of the first big decisions you’ll have to make as a parent is about vaccines. It is important to be informed about this as most hospitals routinely administer the first vaccine on the very day the baby is born! The Vaccine Book: Making the Right Decision for Your Childgives a well balanced overview of the research and lets you decide for yourself. Very eye opening! One of the other important decisions you’ll have to make for your newborn (if you have a boy) is whether or not to circumcise. The Hippie Housewife challenged some of the misconceptions about circumcision in her post at Up, Down & Natural. For many families circumcision isn’t just a given anymore!
9 I resisted reading too many baby and parenting books because I didn’t want to get into the worrying or competition of baby hitting milestones by a certain age. I was very glad I did take a look at The Baby Book: Everything You Need to Know About Your Baby from Birth to Age Twowhile I was pregnant though. This is a thick book that will carry you through the first couple years of parenting, so there’s no need to read it all right now. I was glad I made it through Chapters 1-9, so I knew not to worry about the normal things you never know about newborns until you have one like baby acne, cradle cap, and creaking joints. The Sears experience of naturally parenting 8 children along with their medical background is priceless.
10 Have 9 months gone by and you’re still pregnant? Hang in there Mama! Reread Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth birth stories. There is no better way to learn all the ways natural birth can manifest and what to expect if you’ve never experienced it before. I will always tenderly remember reading and rereading these inspirational stories from women naturally birthing their babies.
And just one more! I was so inspired by my own natural birth stories, I wrote my own natural birth book. It’s called Natural Birth Stories: The Real Mom’s Guide to an Empowering Natural Birth. My dream is that every mom will become fully informed about her choices for childbirth before giving birth. I hope that after reading this book you’ll feel confident and making the many decisions that come along with birth that are best for you and your family!
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