How do you find a midwife or obstetrician?
When should you start looking?
Check with Your Insurance Company
Think about Birth Location
Choosing a care provider is very closely tied to your birth location. If you already know whether you want to give birth at home, in a birth center, or in a hospital, this may help inform your decision of a care provider. For instance, obstetricians almost always attend women in the hospital. Most Certified Nurse Midwives work in hospitals, while Certified Professional Midwives and Licensed Midwives primarily attend home births and birth center births.
It’s always great to be able to get referrals from a personal friend that you already know and trust. However, you may not know anyone who has had a natural birth. You also may not be quite ready to announce your pregnancy to friends and family in the early weeks when you are looking for a care provider. If this is the case, you can also find reviews and referrals on local online message boards.
Interview Potential Midwives or Obstetricians
It is a good idea to interview a handful of midwives or obstetricians you are considering. You can spend all day looking at their websites and talking to past patients, but nothing will tell you as much as a short interview with a potential care provider.
Most midwives are happy to have you interview them before committing to going with their practice. Some even require an initial consultation before you schedule your first prenatal. An interview is not quite as standard practice for obstetricians, but a good doctor who will be supportive of your natural birth would certainly take the time to answer your questions.
The interview is also your chance to ask questions to reveal whether a care provider has the experience and values to help you achieve a natural birth.
To achieve a natural birth, it is very important to be relaxed and comfortable in your birth location and with the people who are surrounding you. You can tell a lot from a first impression about whether a particular care provider is a right fit for your personality.
In the next post I’ll share a list of interview questions you might want to ask when you’re looking for a care provider.
When I found out I was pregnant, I had already ruled out an obstetrician as an option because I didn’t want to give birth in a hospital. I started looking for a midwife as soon as I found out I was pregnant. As for finding a midwife, I was really lucky. There are tons of them in my area, and there were even quite a few on my insurance. Then I checked local message boards online for reviews and information about each one. Once I narrowed down the ones that worked in birth centers that weren’t covered by my insurance, or in hospitals, or were too far away from my home, just one remained.
We went for the interview when I was around 8 weeks. After my husband and I interviewed our midwife, we both walked away knowing she was the one. It’s no doubt a miracle and a blessing that I ended up finding my beloved midwife. I hope you’re able to find a midwife or obstetrician that is perfect for you!
What advice would you give pregnant moms for how to find a midwife or obstetrician?