I recently passed a sign at a local Home Depot that said, We have Christmas in stock. Of course, the holidays should not be defined by what is on store shelves, but it is impossible to ignore the emphasis our culture puts on consumerism at the holidays. This is the time of the year many naturally-minded parents have learned to dread. However, the holidays don't have to be the time of consumption and clutter that we have come to expect. It's a great time to stop and ask ourselves what we want to teach our children about the relationship between consumerism and family.
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1. A Special Outing
2. Membership
Give the gift of a family membership or season pass to a local zoo, water park, theme park, or museum. Many memberships are set up to include the whole family and even a couple of guests. This is a gift that kids will truly enjoy for months to come. Even better, many season passes are deeply discounted at this time of year.
3. Music
4. Art Supplies
5. Books
Books make an excellent gift. They are compact, rarely made of plastic, and provide hours of entertainment for little ones. Anyone with a toddler knows they love to read their books over and over again each day. To personalize the gift, you could write a special inscription in the cover to remind the child of you. Our current favorites are the interactive Sneetches on Beaches by Dr. Seuss
and the Baby Touch and Feel
series.
Last Christmas, BabyE received a book with the voices of my sister and brother-in-law recorded reading the story. The Recordable Storybook
is one of his very favorite books to read and reminds us all of our loved ones who live far away.
6. Contribute
Rather than a child receiving a bunch of inexpensive gifts, it would be greener and perhaps more special to receive one very special present. It could be any range of items or experiences. Ask the parents if they have something in mind that they are saving up for, and see if you can go in with several other family members to make that wish come true. Maybe it's a special class or camp, a vacation, music lessons, or some other special experience.
7. Green Toys
What is your go-to gift for toddlers? Please share your ideas in the comments!
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Welcome to the October 2012 Simplicity Parenting Carnival: Holidays
This post was written as part of the monthly Simplicity Parenting Carnival hosted by The Lone Home Ranger and S.A.H.M. i AM. This month we are discussing how we simplify the holiday season. Be sure to read to the end to see a list of the rest of the excellent carnival contributors.
Thanks for reading the Simplicity Parenting Blog Carnival! We hope you’ll take time to read these other great contributors’ posts:
- Choosing Your Battles - Molly at Molly Makes Do talks about ways to keep your holidays simple and remain on speaking terms with your relatives.
- Making Halloween - JW at True Confessions of a Real Mommy says “No need to spend a lot this Halloween! Check out some easy, frugal ideas for dressing your family up!”
- Hibernating During Halcyon - Mandy at Living Peacefully with Children and her family are gearing up for the Halcyon celebrations and enjoying some quiet time as a family.
- Savoring Family Time (or, Simple Homemade Gifts) - Emily at S.A.H.M. i AM is trying to prepare for the holidays early so she can slow down and enjoy time with her family as the days grow shorter and a new baby enters their lives.
- 7 Green Gifts for Toddlers - Shannon at GrowingSlower shares unique green gift ideas for kids this holiday season that are sure to be green mom approved.
- Less is More: Simplifying the Holidays to Make Room for More of What Matters - Amy at Anktangle shares a few easy strategies she uses to keep the holidays manageable, stress-free, and fun!
- buy nothing x-mas? - mama lola at bear & lion describes what christmas is all about to her and her family; treats, music, crafts and LOVE!
- DIY holiday fun - Justine at The Lone Home Ranger revels in thrifting for and making her own holiday gifts and decorations.
Image Credit. This post is linked up with the Tuesday Baby Link Up, Frugally Sustainable, Simple Lives Thursday, Your Green Resource..


Love this post! We get so stressed about finding the perfect gift we forget what the season is really about. Simplifying gift giving makes it more meaningful and fun!
ReplyDeleteThese ideas are great! I hadn't thought about giving a membership as a gift--I've really wanted a zoo pass, but I only think about those during the spring and summer! Great idea!
ReplyDeleteI think it's as big of a gift for mom as it is for the kids. Then we have a fun way to occupy them all summer that is already paid for! You can take a picnic lunch and avoid spending anything.
DeleteExcellent suggestions! These are all things my little one would love, love, love! And me too : )
ReplyDeleteI was just discussing with my husband that the party line for gift ideas is ballet or gymnastics classes. My daughter has been begging for them since she heard the concept, and I know she will love them more than any object we could give her (except perhaps ballet and tap shoes). Museum and zoo memberships are another great idea that I think I'll add to the list. Thanks for the fantastic ideas!
ReplyDeleteGreat list! My kids would love to do or receive anything on this list! I think it is important for our kids to know from a young age that they are not going to get 50 presents (each) under the tree every year. We carefully select a few gifts and then maybe something bigger for each kid. I love that my kids love getting educational toys and art supplies, because they are things I would buy anyways! :)
ReplyDeleteThis is a great list. I love giving people books for the holiday and my sons love books too. I have been thinking a lot about buying some green kids toys this Christmas. I love wooden toys and teethers.
ReplyDeleteThanks! I'm going to file these ideas away for Christmas shopping!
ReplyDeleteGreat list! I'd also like to add to it homemade gifts for those that sew, knit, do woodworking, etc. those that don't can find delightful ecofriendly handmade goods at Etsy and be supporting a family owned business as well.
ReplyDeleteOh geesh Karen! How did I forget to mention handmade?! Thanks for the reminder!
DeleteI've been quietly suggesting experience gifts to the grandparents in hopes of reducing the number of toys that come into my home. My mom is on board, though my mil is taking a little longer to convince. She likes to see the kids unwrap stuff.
ReplyDeleteWe love Green Kid Crafts! An eco friendly kid's craft subscription box that is mailed out to us every month. www.greenkidcrafts.com
ReplyDeleteIt's been fun for me to shop for Addie this year because she's at such a fun age. You don't have to spend much to make her happy! We LOVE the Green Toys. Have you bought any of them? They are made from all recycled materials and are made here in the USA. We bought her the pink dump truck.
ReplyDeleteBooks are also a fabulous gift. I really don't think kids can have too many books. And when Addie looks at her animal books she gets so excited!
It's so great to find gifts that are made in the USA as well as green! I'll have to look into them. I agree about not having enough books. Especially for toddlers, the books are so short we go through a LOT in one day, and I don't like to repeat too many times. Although BabyE can't help having his favorites that we read over and over.
DeleteBooks are always a favorite for me and I try to gift them to everybody as well.
ReplyDeleteWe've been asking family members to get us memberships this year instead of more stuff.
ReplyDeleteI love giving experiences too! It's easy to forgo doing all kinds of fun stuff until someone gifts it to you..
ReplyDeleteThat's so true! It's great to get a fun gift and be able to enjoy it guilt free.
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